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Personal
Growth through Spiritual Development/
Spiritual Development through Personal Growth The high teachings reside at the core of personality, and at the core of all religions as well. |
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I have long been a psychoanalytic psychiatrist. In recent years,
I have noticed that as people are released from the bonds and constrictions,
the ballast and inhibitions, of earlier training (of societal training
as well), there is a natural buoyancy of the soul - a rising, if you
will, to higher levels of personality.
Translated, this means (as I observe it) that as we become
released from neurotic and learned inhibitions, we do not become more
selfish, more power-seeking, more hedonistic or self-absorbed -- but quite
the opposite. They become more giving, less adherent to body pleasures,
less self-occupied, less selfish -- and more and more invested in the
joy of giving.
This is especially noticeable in group formation. For
example, in group therapy, as the treatment goes on, its members draw
together, become a family. And each shows such a desire to share, to help,
to give - sometimes at great personal expense. This is one of the great
strengths of group therapy, and indeed of groups altogether. This is the
power of bonding and binding and melting together in mutual identification.
The community shares, helps, feels helped and feels safe and surrounded
by the mutual bond. This indeed is the hope for our world.
This has been quite a lesson to me, but all the more
so since it is joined with the great teachings of the East. Madame Helena
Blavatsky established Theosophy, a philosophy from the East, at the behest
of great Himalayan masters.
Theosophy taught, in fact demanded, that we invest ourselves
in creating a universal brotherhood of man/woman. These masters turned
away a very prominent Englishman, A.P. Sinnett, who published the Anglo-Indian
newspaper at a time when British Imperial power was at its height. Why
did they turn him away? Because of his insistence on making the teachings
exclusive to the British aristocracy. This was anathema to their message.
Failing to change his mind, they gave him up altogether. Such was the
integrity of their desire for a universal brotherhood of humanity. These
same masters had powers which we would consider magical. Their powers
allowed them to project their presence so that they could be in two places
at the same time; to create something out of apparent thin air; to project
a letter across time and space so that, without writing with pen, the
words became inscribed on paper or parchment at some distance. They did
not consider these powers magical, but rather attributed them to their
greater understanding of the laws of Nature.
Being inspired and excited by the Theosophical message,
I was all the more so when I read Sri Aurobindo's writings. He taught
that it was not enough to retreat to some mountaintop or to raise one's
level of consciousness for one's sake alone . . . rather, it was important
to bring the "Supermind" down from high levels to its manifestation on
earth. By this he meant to create a heaven on earth - and to achieve
the Supermind through acts of kindness and goodness, help and love --
for all of humanity.
This is a wonderfully fulfilling message. It is more
than a message; it is a promise, for it is true that as we become more
giving and less self-absorbed, we achieve powers. We also become more
sensitive to the energies around us. As an example, now that I have been
on this journey for more than twenty years, my intuition has become fine-tuned,
so to speak. I can almost hear what one of my patient's will say before
it is said. This is not unique to me. It is latent within all of us, and
ready at hand as we learn and refine our perception of the subtle realms
which surround us. Such perception comes when we are progressively less
self-occupied and increasingly other-absorbed. Such powers come when we
are less frenetically busy, and progressively quiet inside. When we achieve
that quiet, we can hear the silence, and the message it contains!
And so, personal growth leads to spiritual development,
and spiritual development leads to personal growth.
There are so many examples of this in my practice. It
is so very clear that people are ready for the spiritual message, and
have often been frozen by their fear that they will be ridiculed if they
express their own spiritual experience. Worse, that they will be thought
strange or even psychotic by their psychiatrist or psychologist. But more
and more these spiritual experiences are being recognized, spoken of and
taught. Now the time has come when we can and should make it a part of
our personal development
Here is a case of personality constriction by the very
nature of a "privileged" upbringing: Paula was a remarkable woman but
only in retrospect. Her inner beauty, poetry, channeling insights and
heights of soul-reach became evident only after three years of psychotherapy
and intensive challenge. The "ugly duckling" finally turned into a swan,
showing that under the surface lay an essential sweetness, beauty and
spirituality.
Paula had searched the world for a cure for her "environmental
allergy," and help for a shame-producing problem of muscular distortions.
She was fifty-eight years old when she came to see me, elegantly attractive
despite her disfigurement, queenly in her bearing. At the same time, she
was boring. Her social etiquette was finely tuned, but it consumed her
personality in such a way that the authentic inner person was concealed.
In the beginning of her treatment, she related her story emotionlessly
and colorlessly. It was not surprising, therefore, that when I asked her
what she was feeling, she had to ask me to tell her about emotions and
what they were!
Paula was born into a well-to-do and aristocratic family.
She had been raised largely by the household maid who functioned as a
governess because her mother, a high socialite, was out of the house much
of the time. Notwithstanding, Paula remembers all the times she excitedly
attended the opening of the schoolroom door, sure that it was her mother,
only to find that it was the maid who would be taking care of her after
school. When the patient was sick and ran to the toilet to vomit, it was
the maid who took care of her. Yet she had to make the best of things,
and adopted an approach to people, both beloved and less loved, which
was adaptive, pleasant, superficially friendly -- and empty. This reflected
the emptiness of her life. Paula married a man who was very successful
financially and also from a "good family." Together the two lived a life
devoted to their children that, by all appearances, was almost the ideal
American family. The four children were very obedient and well bred. No
one in this highly cultivated and controlled family -- no one ever rebelled.
In 1975 Paula's symptoms of spasms and environmental
allergy began. Although she thought she wasn't very smart, she showed
her highly developed intelligence by learning almost everything there
was to know about environmental energy, Candidiasis and dystonias (spasms),
demonstrating courage and tenacity as she pursued one cure after another
after another in her determination to become normal. Unbeknownst to her
at the time, becoming normal meant becoming herself. Paula did indeed
become herself. In fact she became much more than her former self. Instead
of the overly correct, somewhat boring and emotionally inexpressive self,
there emerged a soul who was full of love, exceedingly devoted and generous,
and reaching to the high heaven for more and more spiritual knowledge
and fulfillment.
It is really a wonderful assignment that has been given
to me, to work as a translator of the high teachings that reside at the
core of personality, and at the core of all religion. It is a wonderful
assignment to see them at work in my patents, to help my patients to see
them at work within themselves. And this is true of not only my patients,
but also of all of us.
(Some of this material is extracted from Enter the SuperMind,
published by Sterling House of Pittsburgh, and due for release in September,
1999.)
Dr. Pressman is Emeritus Chairman
of Psychiatry at the Albert Einstein Medical Center in Philadelphia and
Clinical Professor of Psychiatry at Temple University Health Sciences
Center. He is Medical Director at the Center for Psychiatric Wellness,
clinics that operate in Philadelphia and Haddonfield, N.J. These clinics
bridge traditional and spiritual psychotherapy. Dr. Pressman can be reached
at 200 Locust Street, Philadelphia, PA 19106; telephone 215-922-0204;
fax 215-922-3008; e-mail mauriedavid@earthlink.net:
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