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Dear Louise, First, I want to comment on how great you look for your age. (I’m looking at your photo on the latest edition of your book You Can Heal Your Life.) My question: I do notice that healing does take time, and I’m noticing that life is improving, but is there an additional affirmation to help me leave my current place of employment more quickly? My family is in the process of moving to Florida, and I’m a single woman who lives with no roommates other than a cat. I’m very creative, and now actively looking to leave my situation. Any advice and support would help. —N.T. , Bangor, Maine Dear N.T., Thank you for your kind words. I do my best to live what I teach and to take good care of my body. I’m careful not to eat things that aren’t life-enhancing for me. So, you want to leave your current job on the best of terms. When you get a new job, it will be something batter than what you have now if you do this: Flood everything about the job with love; and bless the building with love, all the offices, all the furniture, all the equipment, and most of all, your employer. Just send love to each and every part. Even bless with love the transportation you use to get to work. If there are customers involved, bless them, too. Then affirm: There is a wonderful new job looking for me in Florida. This employer is looking for exactly what I have to officer. They will be delightful, kind people to work for and will pay me a good salary. I deserve it, and I accept it now! Dear Louise, My dear mum has always been depressed and is a big worrier. I can see myself in her, but that’s not who I want to be. How can I stop myself from becoming my mum? —A.G., Ireland Dear A.G., I’m glad that you noticed that the depression and worry is only a thought pattern. Now, every time you find yourself thinking like your mother, just say to yourself: That is my mum thinking, not me. I am a cheerful, optimistic person, and I know that Life loves me and will always take care of me. All is well, and I am safe. Dear Louise, There’s been a huge change in me in terms of my outlook on life and personality since reading your books. Everyone at work has commented that I have this glow that’s very positive—and I’ve quit smoking! Now that was an achievement. My cigarettes were my life, and now I don’t need them. There’s a downside to my story, though, regarding finances. I’m a single mom of one child whom I’m very blessed to have, but I just can’t attract the finances I need to survive. I’m always without money—literally without. My child’s father has a habit of not supporting his child unless I phone and beg, but I’m so tired of begging, and so tired of being without and always looking for help. I’ve run out of people and places to go to for help. Please tell me how to love myself so that I can bring prosperity into my life. —B.I., South Africa Dear B.I., Congratulations on your progress so far! If you can change one pattern, you can change any pattern. Make a list of all the negative things your parents said about money, such as “Money doesn’t grow on trees,” or “There’s never enough,” or “Money is hard to get.” As children, we believe what our parents say and get stuck in their patterns. You need to forgive them and move on. It’s time to create your own beliefs. Let’s create some new beliefs for you. Affirm: My income is constantly increasing. I prosper wherever I turn. My child is always well taken care of. There’s plenty for both of us. Money comes in expected and unexpected ways. I relax and allow Life to take care of both of us. New employment comes to me in the most unusual way. I love and adore myself, and I am pleased and proud of who I am. Louise L. Hay is a metaphysical teacher and the best-selling author of numerous books, including You Can Heal Your Life, Empowering Women, and I Can Do It. If you would like Louise to answer your letter in this publication, please send it to: Dear Louise Column, c/o Hay House, Inc., P.O. Box 5100, Carlsbad, CA 92018-5100, or email your letter to: admin@hayhouse.com. Please visit Louise’s Website at: www.louisehay.com or the Hay House Website at: www.hayhouse.com. |
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