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The Hand Upon My Head

I would like to share a true miracle story. It happened to me last July at the end of a five-day retreat in Oregon.

     Barry and I have been writing an article a month on the amazing process of relationship, the inner relationship with ourselves and the outer relationship with others, for over 27 years. This is something we truly love doing and hope to continue for another 27 years. I believe we will never run out of material because the area of relationship is so vast. We love to study all relationships and have been so blessed to make this our life’s work.

     As much as I love to hear about someone’s outer relationship, I am even more excited to hear about their inner relationship. I truly believe we are loved and cared for while we walk

this planet, and that we are filled with a deepening sense of joy and peace when we more fully realize how loved we really are. One of my favorite things to do is to imagine a divine hand upon my head blessing me in my life and letting me know that I am cared for and loved. I do this especially when I feel insecure or stressed. Once while in the emergency room with a badly broken leg and ankle, I closed my eyes and blocked out the flurry of other patients and medical staff and just imagined this other-worldly hand upon my head reminding me that everything would work out alright. Another time, right before I was to speak at my mother’s memorial service, I also imagined this hand upon my head helping to calm my emotions and nervousness. When I remember to do this, I find that it

works every time to help bring peace to my sometimes troubled soul.

     Since this practice has brought so much peace to my heart, we also try and give this experience to others. Usually toward the end of every one of our workshops, Barry and I have people close their eyes in a silent prayer. We then use this opportunity to go around to each person and place our hands on their head to bless them and say a prayer for them. If it is a small group we go together. For a larger group we split up and each take half of the group. Blessing each person with our hands and saying a prayer for them is very important to both of us.

     Last summer we were leading our annual “Summer Renewal” retreat for singles, couples and families at Breitenbush Hot Springs